If it's any comfort, the same thing happens in the Korean arts.
It's probably worse in hapkido than in TKD, because at least TKD has the Kukkiwon, which is something of a central, very widely recognized sanctioning organization.
Hapkido is very different. The art fragmented even before its founder, Choi Yong Sul, had died. Many of his original students went off to form their own kwans.
Hapkido is notorious for "airplane masters", or whatever you want to call them: people who board the plane in Seoul as 2nd-4th dans, and land in the US as 8th dans.
I go to Korea every year to train. The training in our headquarters is incomparable. But, I know there are many hapkido dojang across Korea where the instruction is poor, especially when compared with the way the founder originally taught the aikijujutsu he had learned in Japan (which is the way we train).
The image of the Japanese/Korean/Chinese instructor being superior to any westerner is just another stereotype, I think. It all comes down to the individual instructor.
btw, John, that's a great story.
